Time To Pretend

Written on Monday, June 23, 2008 by Sundeep Rambhojun




Was watching the movie 21 (a real nice movie btw..) and came across this song..Time to Pretend by Mgmt..and it clicked..i dunno why but this song makes me feel good, and somewhat matches my state of mind. Check it out..


..and let's party like rockstars

Written on Saturday, June 14, 2008 by Sundeep Rambhojun



We work hard the whole week..well i do..sometimes..and then comes the week end. So what do we do in week ends? Well, some times back i would just be at home surfing, chatting, watching movies..ou touye lezard :p. However, ever since i came to know that i might be going to somewhere in Africa for quite some time, I have changed attitude. From now on..i work for Monday to Friday..and as from Friday night.. its party time. And since we are partying..let's party like rockstars..

In the past few days, i came to realise that i actually know many ppl, and i didnt kinda take the time to keep in touch. For instance today I went to a party organised by UoM student..gosh i didnt realise i knew so many ppl..btw..for all those i promised to come back have a chat and i didnt come..sorry..next time promise i will..oh and also..to the beautiful gurls i promised a dance and didnt come..sorry again..i promise next time i will dance with u..

Well this party was great today..got to meet some ppl i didnt meet in a while..and some new faces..and some i knew only on MSN or FB..well then..i had fun..got my load of bizous..handshakes..got my load of tequilla..vodka and beer..and cigs as well..although i was out of cig before the end of the party...

Its a kinda good feeling to go somewhere..and actually know ppl..i think its the first time i went to a party alone..and soon as i got in there i had ppl coming.."hey ki p dire?? lontant pas trouve toi.." well there were some with their "Encore toeme????" as well. I had a good time today..and indeed i can say..i partied like a rockstar..well its been this way for some week ends now. Tonight itself i was invited to the iCreate Night at 2122 and the School of Design catwalk..but since i dnt have any means of transport..i think i'll b at home tonight..i think its really time i get this driving licence..for there are cars over here..but i am not legally entitled to drive them..pfftt..

Anyways..thats it for today..where and when is the next party?? Or perhaps tom will b meeting with my mates for some drinks..

Life's short..let's party..like rockstars..
(dnt mind the typo mistakes..am still drunk..)

PS : Mne ressi konner..tout sa ban tifi ki ti p dire moi pas fimer la..zot tou fimer!!! OMG!!!!!

PS : Too much partying can be tiring..my voice is gone..although its sexier..but i cant speak softly :s

Falling out of love - The definitive guide

Written on Sunday, June 08, 2008 by Sundeep Rambhojun




Every relationship comes with an expiry date. Believe it or not..some come earlier..and some much later..

What to do when the time comes? Very often this kind of feeling happens to one of the partner in the couple..either he/she does not want to continue with the relationship, or he/she doesn't seem to feel anything for the other one. Well here a link where you could get a test for that..

Let's say you are in the situation of the other partner, you've been dumped or about to be dumped by your bf/gf, yet you still happen to have very strong feelings for that person. Things could get pretty messy over here..trust me i know what am saying.

Well if you are in that situation, or u just wanna get over it, here's some advice, which I have been applying since some weeks and they actually seem to work.

Step 1: Remove all the traces of that person in you life. Well you could eventually block the person from ur IM/facebook, delete his/her sms, delete his/her pictures, return him/her their gifts or throw them away (this could be rude) or keep it somewhere in a dark corner you will forget it ever existed. This is a very first step.

Step 2: You might wanna avoid coming across that person on the road, hence you won't go to places where you are sure u are gonna meet that person in the very near future..perhaps afterward when you are done. This would also imply, not meeting common friends for a while.

Step 3: If you happen to still b friends with the person, you might wanna distance yourself a bit, it might be pretty painful to wanna be as close as possible with the you love but the latter no longer treat you the same. So taking some distance would do you good.

Step 4: Its a real good idea to meet new people, in the past few weeks, i have met more people that i ever did while i was with my ex, and it felt real good meeting new people. Oh yeah, you could also go out more often with ur friends, have fun..clubbing would be great, shopping with friends as well would go great..you could also take this opportunity to do all the things that you always wanted to do, but you couldnt cause of your bf/gf. I am sure there is a list of such things..do it..be it eating smtg in particular or having a one night stand..just do it..

Step 5: After taking some distance, you can now make a list why things wouldn't work. She was too bitchy..she was too bossy..he was too jealous..he was not caring enough..write it out down..

Step 6: One lost...many more found..

As much as you would wanna forget the person and not feel anything for that person, there will be times where u'll be missing that person, or be pissed when some1 else is flirting with him/her. Just keep in mind some of the feelings might not ever disappear, but hey..we need to move on don't we? So let's move on..